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February “BE” To Love…

Have you prepared yourself for the month of “love”? Stores filled with pink and red toys, gifts, and candy that either makes you smile or feel discouraged about love because you are single, divorced, in a fight, or whatever your love situation is.

My love situation is pretty good these days. I’ll be moving in with my boyfriend in early spring. I'm not here to throw that in your face, but I get to boast because I’ve dated a variety of men who have emotionally abused, lied to, and cheated on me.  I learned a tremendous amount about myself; therefore, I thank these a-holes for making me stronger even when they tried to weaken my Identity.

I believe in the past 30 years I have learned a great deal and believe I have a good idea about love and thought I’d share with you. Please feel free to comment below and share your tips on love.

Love Yourself –
We tend to look for others to love us. They won’t love us until we love ourselves first. It’s an every, single day battle for many of us women to fully love within, but when you love yourself it’s unconditional love. Who doesn’t want that? Nobody can take this love away from you. You make the choice and steps to love YOU. Why not start now?

Give Love and Respect – Who do you love and respect? Do you show it with words, actions, and/or gifts? What you put out there to the universe and those around you will come back. Love and respect and the universe will respond.

Love Comes and Goes – If you don’t know this by now, then I don’t know what to tell you.  Love comes into our life and sometimes it leaves before we even realized we had love. Do we always know why? Nope. It sucks because I’m the type that needs answers, but sometimes it takes time to understand why we lost a certain type of love—love in a relationship, love for a hobby, or a loved one taken from us. Therefore, when you love, embrace it and cherish it.  Don’t be scared or shy, just live for the day and love in the moment.

Valentine’s Day is coming up, and I want you to know you are loved. I love you, and love your support for Identity. I wish you love and happiness! 

P.S. I have a gift for you and all the women out there! Mark your calendar for February 7-16th for Identity's NATIONAL I LOVE MY… MISSION! (Learn more)

P.P.S. – Don't forget, also new this month: B.I.G. Achievements, Identity Most Wanted, review your horoscope (mine was dead on) and last, pre-register to be the FIRST to receive the Identity Magbook. (another surprise with the pre-book registration, but can't tell you yet)


Feel Beautiful Everyday!

Susan Vernicek – Founder




About the author

Susan Vernicek

Susan Vernicek

Facts about Susan Vernicek:
• She’s happily married and a mother of 4 year old twins.

• She’s tried almost every fad diet back in her quick-fix days, admits at age 36 it’s a struggle to work hard on overall balance and is focused on not giving into the unhealthy fads we see daily.

• She’s all natural with natural blonde hair, uneven breasts, a bigger nose, and full of curves that she learns to appreciate more and more each day.

• She had a career where part of her job was staring at herself 40 hours a week manipulating her very own face as well as others.

• She’s the youngest of 7, ranging from 38-60+, an Aunt, Great Aunt and even younger than some of her nieces and nephews!

• She’s traveled and seen over 8 countries and spent a summer in London finding her passion and embracing life.

• She created CJS Identity Properties. AKA, having no business background and at the age of 25.

•She's a certified Holistic Health Coach and Diamond BeachBody Coach

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