Sex toys may have been a taboo subject, but with vibrators coming in every shape and size now, it is no wonder they have become so popular. Sex toys, once believed to cure hysteria, are a great way for women and their partners to gain confidence in their sex lives. Take control into your hands with a new sex toy!
Guest Post by Adam and Eve
Over the course of the last decade, sex toys have gone from being labeled as taboo to being discussed openly and freely. It’s become completely acceptable and normal to own one or even multiple sex toys. In fact, recent studies have reported that 1 in 2 women own a sex toy, so if you don’t, you can bet your best friend certainly does.
Fun facts to appreciate sex toys with confidence
However, despite the increasing acceptance of sex toys, many women still feel uncomfortable talking about them, especially if they don’t currently own one. So I’m here to explain why we should feel comfortable using and discussing sex toys, with some fun facts along the way.
Did you know that the first vibrator was created to help cure woman who were suffering from hysteria. Doctors found that orgasms were the solution, so they developed one so large that two people had to be in place to operate it. It was noted that many of the doctors thought the curing process was hard and time consuming. Mmmhmm.
I’m sure the doctors also saw a massive increase in hysteria cases once the vibrator was created, I mean, I’d fake it.
Sex toys = being empowered!
Using sex toys is a great way to embark on a personal journey and help you discover what you like. You can explore what works and what doesn’t. Learning these things about yourself can help you become more confident and feel sexually empowered. Studies have actually found that women who masturbate tend to have higher self-esteem and have more of a positive body image than those who don’t. And plus, you don’t have to wait for a partner to come along to do the work, you have all the power right in your hand.
But if you happen to be in a relationship, you can relay this new found information to your partner. This part may be a little intimidating, but being open with them and showing them what you have learned can really bring the two of you closer together. You can build a stronger relationship and find more satisfaction in your bedroom routine. What’s not to love?
This can also open the door to the two of you involving sex toys in your sexual routine. Suggest trying it and if they are open to it, talk about what you would like to incorporate. If they or you aren’t very knowledgeable on the options out there, spend so time together exploring online sex toy websites to get some ideas. Adam and Eve is a great place to start. You’ll feel closer and learn a thing or two about your partner that you might not have known.
And did you know that women who use sex toys report having more orgasms and higher sexual satisfaction with their partner than women who don’t?
As sex toys grow in popularity, it’s time for us to be more open about it. You will find that you are happier and more satisfied, when you are talking about your needs and how they can be met. So go forth and preach!
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