Elder Abuse and Neglect: Understand the Signs

Signs of Elder Abuse
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Written by Carol Trehearn

Keep an eye out for these signs of elder abuse and neglect to ensure that your loved one has the quality of life that they deserve.

Abuse of the elderly in places where they should be safe and well cared for, such as in nursing homes and even in a patient’s own home, is more common than it should be. If you are concerned about the wellbeing of a loved one who can no longer take care of themselves because of old age, continue reading for a list of signs that should alert you to elder abuse and neglect.

Once you notice the following signs of abuse, take action right away by contacting elder law attorneys like Garcia Law to get justice and to get your elderly loved one into a safe environment.

Signs of Physical Abuse

Elder abuse comes in a variety of forms, but one of the most common is physical abuse. If you notice any unexplained indications of injury, such as scars, welts, or bruises, your loved one may be in a dangerous situation. This is especially true if the injuries appear symmetrically on both sides of the body.

Other symptoms of physical abuse include dislocated bones, sprains, and broken bones, a failure to take medicine regularly or a report of overdose, broken eyeglasses, any signs that the person has been restrained, and a caregiver’s refusal to let you be with your loved one alone.

Signs of Emotional Abuse

In addition to physical abuse, the elderly can also suffer from emotional abuse. Sometimes you can see emotional abuse occurring right in front of you, particularly if you notice the caregiver belittling, controlling, or threatening your loved one in any way.

At other times, however, the signs can be more subtle, especially if your loved one is unable to communicate effectively. You might notice, for example, that your loved one starts to exhibit behavior that would mimic dementia, such as mumbling to themselves, sucking, or rocking. The person may also be depressed, withdraw or isolate themselves from others, feel anxious, angry, agitated, or fearful, or be unresponsive, resigned, or confused.

Signs of Neglect

Rather than just looking for signs of abuse, you should also keep an eye out for signs of neglect. If your loved one is losing weight unexplainably, or if there are signs of dehydration or malnutrition, it could be that their caregiver is not taking good care of them.

Other symptoms of neglect include untreated physical ailments, such as bed sores, as well as unsanitary living conditions that include soiled clothes and bedding, dirt, and pests. Also, signs of being left unbathed or dirty could indicate neglect. An elderly person who hasn’t been clothed suitably for the weather, or someone who is living in conditions that are unsafe, where there is faulty wiring, fire hazards, no running water, or a lack of heat, would also be considered neglected.

Keep an eye out for these signs of elder abuse and neglect to ensure that your loved one has the quality of life that they deserve. Again, in the event that you notice this type of abuse, you can contact the right attorneys to get justice.

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Carol Trehearn

Carol has a love for freelance writing.