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Yoga Saved Me From Committing Suicide

How Yoga Saved Me From Committing Suicide
Joanna Barrett
Written by Joanna Barrett

It saved my life. I know that’s a big statement…

I have something I want to share about  my  life, something I have never told anyone in great detail, until now.

Yoga Saved Me.

It saved my life. I know that’s a big statement, but if I didn’t step into  my  first class when I did in early spring 2009, I’m sure I would have committed suicide by summertime.

My  sister and  my  best friend both encouraged me to try  yoga  to help reduce my crushingly high stress levels. I had a demanding job in the event industry, a hellish boss, and a long commute to a job I hated every day.

They weren’t  aware that I was so deeply depressed that I considered driving  my  new shiny Prius off the highway every single day.

That’s how I would do it, I decided; I would abruptly yank the  steering  wheel to the right, drive off the road at high speed, and roll into a ditch, killing me instantly without pain. Or at least I hoped I wouldn’t survive and be in any more pain. But I kept this plan hidden inside, where it was eating me alive.

I was petrified to go to  the yoga studio and had no idea what to expect. But at the same time, I was desperate to do something, anything, to  alleviate  the emotional pain inside me. The fear  of the unknown was actually what propelled me into my first class. I wasn’t sure what  my  future would be and was uncertain what the answer to my problem was. But suicidal thoughts entered  my  mind every day, and I lived with the  uncertainty  of if, when, and how I would make it happen.

Then one day in the freezing cold month of March, I stepped onto a borrowed mat at the local studio. I don’t remember the specifics of  my  first hatha class, who the teacher was, or how many students were in the class. But I remember feeling  my  feet on the ground, stable and comfortable in  my  body in Mountain Pose. I could feel  the steady beating of my  heart. Despite feeling so deep into a hole that I couldn’t crawl out, I knew that  by  standing tall on  my  mat, I was still alive.

One class a week led to two, followed by three. I dabbled in vinyasa classes, but really enjoyed the studio’s Sunday morning class, “Yoga  for Stress Reduction,” which was a mix of slow flow and restorative asanas, pranayama, and meditation. The class focus was on relieving and reducing stress in the body and mind, and creating a more peaceful state both on and off the  yoga  mat.

At the time, I wasn’t aware of what was happening in and out of  my  body and mind, but the stress reduction I felt on the mat trickled into  my  everyday  life. My  migraines lessened and  my  chronic fatigue eased. I could finally relax the tension in  my  shoulders and neck, and  my  severe acid reflux began to subside. Nearly every day I sought the peace I felt with yoga; I shut my bedroom door, lay on the floor, and felt  my  breath underneath my hands, which made a gentle connection to my torso. I would tune into sensations that I had never felt, and I began to see  my  depression more clearly. I experienced the mind-body connection and came to realize that  my  emotional health was not only important to  my livelihood — it was  crucial  if I wanted to  live.

The place I called “home” for 22 years was filled with memories I wished to forget, and enough turbulent  relationships that I wanted to run away from. I was haunted by the events of  my  past, but began to see that through  yoga,  the universe may have a future for me. Several months after I began  my yoga  journey, I was finally empowered to leave the job that made me miserable, move out of  my parents’ house, and relocate  my  life  to a new city. Looking back at this time in  my  life, I now see that the veil of depression lifted just enough for me to see the future possibilities for  my  life and the need for a fresh start. Maybe the universe had a plan for me, a plan that was yet to be revealed.

In  my  new city, I found a small studio near my apartment and attended gentle classes twice a week. I never thought I would be a  daily  practitioner, until one day a teacher asked me, “Why wouldn’t you get  on your mat every day?” I didn’t have a response. It was then that I woke up to my new reality. It would be just like washing  my  face or brushing  my  teeth daily; it soon became part of  my  regular routine. I was able to attend a 7:30 am class, and if evening traffic allowed, I could also make it the 6:30 pm class. I was hooked on daily practice and, not surprisingly, my depression eased during this time. Without the guidance of a doctor, I stopped  my  anti-depressant medication. Yoga  was “good enough” to manage  my  mood and symptoms for a time, but eventually depression crept back into  my  soul, and soon I needed to find a psychiatrist and resume medication.

Several years later, I decided to pursue  yoga  teacher training. I completed  my  200-hour training  and continued  my  yogic education, spending thousands of dollars on more  trainings, workshops, and classes. I loved being in the studio, and pretty soon I wasn’t even aware of the deep depression I had been hiding for over 15 years.

Feeling “stuck in a rut” was an everyday  occurrence  for me prior to  my  daily  yoga  practice. Once I began connecting  my  body and breath with movement and meditation, the depression lessened,  my  self-esteem increased, and I felt empowered to take control of  my  own  life. I witnessed  my  internal world and focused on  self-directed compassion. My  external world became clearer through  my  eyes. I realized the  transformation  that was possible when the connection of my body, breath, spirit, and soul connected in union.

I’m not going to pretend I reached enlightenment; I’m far away from that status. I’m also not going to pretend that I haven’t had any depressive episodes; I have. And yet, I started seeing the value of  my  life more clearly, and I have never returned to that deep well of despair that I experienced during the darkest, most debilitating periods of  my  life.

If you have read this far, here’s  my  message to you: I know the practice of  yoga  can help individuals work through tough times on their journey to optimal well-being.

Your  life  circumstances can and will change; everything is impermanent, transient, and in a constant state of flux. No matter what you are dealing with in your  life, you can find something, anything, which will  evoke  a light within your spirit. It doesn’t have to be yoga (though I do encourage  everyone to try at least three different classes).

As an aspiring  yoga  therapist, I see individuals for whom the depression, anxiety, and trauma is weighing too heavily on their spirits, and I gently  encourage them to reach out for help.

If you identify with my story, please talk to a trusted person who cares about you, and take the step to see a trained healthcare provider. And finally, my wish for you is to see that you are worthy, and your  life  matters in this world. You are responsible for living a  glorious, joyful, and fulfilling  life. You can find what your soul is searching for by taking the first step forward to  the rest of your  life.

Identity Magazine is all about empowering women to get all A’s in the game of life — Accept. Appreciate. Achieve.TM Every contributor and expert answer the Identity 5 questions in keeping with our theme. Their answers can be random and in the moment or they can be aligned with the above article. As a team, we hope to inspire and motivate ourselves and inspire you to get all A’s.

1. What have you accepted within your life, physically and/or mentally? What are you still working on accepting?

I have accepted that I am living a more authentic life than ever before.   I am heart-centered, courageous, vulnerable, connected, and loving.   And I am still working on accepting that I am multi-dimensional, and there are many layers and parts of myself that I have not yet uncovered.

2. What have you learn to appreciate about yourself and/or within your life, physically and mentally? What are you still working on to appreciate?

I have learned to appreciate my past experiences, whether good or bad, or anything in between, for those experiences have helped shape me into the person I am today.  

3. What is one of your most rewarding achievements in life? What makes YOU most proud? What goals and dreams do you still have?

One of the most rewarding achievements in my life has been becoming a yoga teacher.   It was a long process, and I was physically, mentally, and emotionally challenged.   I was so proud of this achievement, that I got a tattoo of “om” on the back of my shoulder.   It’s a representation of a turning point in my life.   I have a goal of graduating with my master’s degree in counseling psychology and becoming a certified yoga therapist.   I dream of helping women  reach their full potential and optimal well-being.   I dream of guiding women to develop life skills for both personal and  professional relationships and to thrive in every area of their life.

4. We all have imperfections, so we think. The truth–we are all perfectly imperfect. What are your not-so-perfect ways? What imperfections and quirks create who you are–your Identity?

I sometimes stay in my teacher/therapist persona, and therefore I am not able connect with people (and with life) as intimately as I would like. I desire a connection with others, and sometimes I need to soften and connect on a more profound level. This, however, has helped me witness my patterns and work towards modifying them.  

5. “I Love My…” is an outlet for you to express and appreciate all the positive traits that make you…well… YOU! Sharing what you love about yourself will make you smile, feel empowered, and uplift your spirit and soul. (we assure you!) Identity challenges you to complete the phrase “I Love My…?”

I love my smile and how I feel when I laugh.   I love my two different colored eyes and the clarity I see when I look deeply into the world.   I love my voice and the soothing sound that is shared.   I love my hands, for they remind me of my mother.   I love my heart and how open and alive I feel in my heart-center after deep meditation.   I love my ability to learn and grow and share.

About the author

Joanna Barrett

Joanna Barrett

Joanna Barrett is a Registered Yoga Teacher (RYT-200) and Yoga as Therapy provider, offering yoga to clients with anxiety, depression, and those with trauma histories. She is focused on helping women reach their full potential and optimal well-being. Joanna’s experience in holistic wellness and mind-body modalities for healing has led her toward guiding women to develop life skills for both personal and professional relationships.

Joanna brings with her over 500 hours of yoga training in various styles, primarily in therapeutic yoga and trauma-sensitive yoga. To round out her knowledge, she is currently completing her master’s degree in Counseling Psychology at Lesley University. Her career includes the Cambridge Insight Mediation Center, Harvard University’s School of Public Health, South Boston Yoga, Healing Tree Yoga & Wellness Center, and a private practice in the Boston area. She is a member of the American Psychological Association, National Counseling Association, International Association of Yoga Therapists and Yoga Alliance. See more at her website at -- www.joannabarrettyoga.com

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